After a breakup, you may feel like your life is over. Nothing you do gives you any pleasure and you can no longer be with your friends because all you can think of is getting your ex back. You just sit night after night watching television, but you do not know what you saw. When you hear a love song you quickly turn it off. You have thought of dating, but you know that you would just be using the other person as a tool to make your ex jealous. You know this has to stop before you ruin your health. But what can you do?
The first thing you have to do is let your ex go, at least for now. Find other things to interest you and reconnect with your family. The main thing you must do is stay away from your ex. Do not be calling, sending emails or text messages. The only way you can get your ex back is to make him/her miss you. There is no way they can miss you if you are always around. You have to make them think that you have given up and you are moving on. This can achieve more than you can imagine.
By showing your ex that you can live your life without them, they will have more respect for you. Also when they do not hear from you for some time, they will wonder what happened to you. This puts you on their mind again in a positive manner. When you were chasing them and harassing them you were on their mind, but in a negative manner. When they start having these positive thoughts it will make him/her remember the good times you had together and begin to miss you. The things you did that irritated them and the arguments you had will fade into the background and they will realize they still love you.
During this time apart, you should work on improving yourself. You know the little things that you did that irritated your ex. Work to eliminate these faults and develop better character traits. When you make yourself a better person, you will have more confidence and a more positive outlook on life. When you think you have made good headway making these improvements, call your ex and ask them to meet you for coffee. Since they have started to miss you, they will be glad to hear from you and agree to meet you.
When you meet him/her, be upbeat, cheerful and let your new confidence show. Look your ex in the eye and apologize for the pain you have caused them. Then tell them that you have been working on improving your self and ask for a second chance. They have already been missing you and was ready to over look the small problems you had. Hearing you say that you recognize your problems and that you have been working on them, they will be delighted and you will get your ex back.
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